20.500.12556/DKUM-10849 IZRAŽANJE NEGATIVNIH ČUSTEV EXPRESSING NEGATIVE EMOTIONS POVZETEK Čustva nas spremljajo na vsakem koraku. So reka našega življenja. Dajejo nam življenjski zagon, občutek za lepoto in barvitost življenja. V naše odnose vnašajo toplino in nas povezujejo z bližnjimi. Vendar niso vedno le prijetna. Obstajajo tudi tista, neprijetna, ki nam lahko občasno tudi zelo zagrenijo življenje. Vsa čustva so sestavni del našega vsakdana in brez njih si življenja pravzaprav sploh ne moremo predstavljati. Kadar pa se negativna čustva prepogosto pojavljajo, takrat dobesedno zastrupljajo našo duševnost in medsebojne odnose. Zato imajo prav tisti, ki pravijo, da so čustva tista, ki nas lahko popeljejo od »pekla« do »nebes«. Moč čustev je res velika , kar spoznamo že v zgodnjem otroštvu. Prav zaradi te moči bi bilo dobro, da bi se že zgodaj naučili primerno ravnati z njimi. Da bomo sposobni čutiti, razumeti in učiti druge, predvsem svoje otroke, moramo v prvi vrsti čutiti sebe. Čustva se navadno porodijo spontano, nenapovedano in pogosto nepričakovano. Zaradi tega imamo že odrasli veliko težav z obvladovanjem čustev, kaj šele otroci. Na vsakem koraku bi se morali zavedati, da smo odrasli s svojim obnašanjem zgled otrokom in da se bodo naši malčki z vsemi čustvenimi težavami verjetno spopadali tako, kot se bodo naučili od nas. Uravnotežen, naraven in zdrav čustveni odnos , je verjetno največja dota, ki jo lahko damo svojemu otroku, na poti skozi čustvene brzice, viharje in čeri, ki jih prinaša življenje. ABSTRACT No aspect of our mental life is more important to the quality and meaning of our existence than emotions. They are what make life worth living, or sometimes ending. Emotions have the power to bring warmth and to connect us to our dear ones. However, the emotions expressed by humans can be divided into two broad categories: positive and negative. Negative emotions express an attempt or intention to exclude - strengthening one's own state of mind at the expense of others and at the expense of relationships. One could say that emotions have the power to change a present situation into another, a different one, ranging from a small degree of change to a totally opposite situation. The power of emotions is truly big, what we already find out in an early childhood. Due to that power, it would be good in early stages to learn how to treat them properly. To be able to feel, understand and teach others, especially our own children, we need, first of all to feel ourselves. Emotions come to life spontaneously, unannouncedly and often unexpectedly. For this reason, we, adults already have many troubles with controlling emotions let alone children. We should be aware everywhere that we, adults with our own behaviour are an example to children, and that little children with their emotional troubles will probably deal with them as they will learn from us. By being constructive while expressing emotions is part of our child’s path towards maturity. KLJUČNE BESEDE PRIJETNA ČUSTVA NEPRIJETNA ČUSTVA DUŠEVNOS MEDSEBOJNI ODNOSI OTROŠTVO KEY WORD Positive emotions Negative emotions State of mind Relation Childhood true true false [V. Anžur] Slovenski jezik Angleški jezik Diplomsko delo 2009-06-09 20:02:28 2009-07-07 13:35:48 2022-04-11 16:36:58 2022-04-17 03:16:55 2009 0 Maribor 0 0000-00-00 NiDoloceno NiDoloceno NiDoloceno 0000-00-00 0000-00-00 0000-00-00 373.2(043.2) 16987400 URN:SI:UM:DK:GKF12ECS VS_Anzur_Veronika_2009.pdf VS_Anzur_Veronika_2009.pdf 1 231B85F704EF9A425968ECC3D479BEF9 87f95a9617f74eae61e5feae3c51c10e96416c25aa51b8862316ebe69587d730 f285c4ef-7c02-11eb-bb7a-00155d0001ca 20.500.12556/dkum/08ae4e86-d621-4441-89ef-60d76444377a https://dk.um.si/Dokument.php?lang=slv&id=9188 Pedagoška fakulteta 0 0 0