20.500.12556/DKUM-36605 VZGAJANJE Z LJUBEZNIJO IN POSTAVLJANJEM MEJA BRINGING UP CHILDREN WITH LOVE AND BY ESTABLISHING THE BOUNDARIES Kako naj vzgajam svojega otroka? je pogosto vprašanje, ki si ga dandanes postavljajo starši. Vsi si želimo svojemu otroki dati kar najprimernejšo vzgojo, vendar pa si ne želimo, da bi bil razvajen. Starši morajo razumeti, kaj so otrokove edinstvene potrebe, saj jih le tako lahko dajo svojemu otroku. Ljubezen je čustvo, ki ga otrok najprej čuti, ko pride na svet, in ki ga bo spremljalo skozi vse življenje. Otrok se ob nežnosti, pozornosti staršev počuti varnega in sprejetega. Ljubezen moramo otroku dajati v obliki, ki bo najbolj koristila njegovemu razvoju. Vendar pa ljubezen, čeprav je bistvena, ni dovolj. Otrok potrebuje za zdrav razvoj meje, ki mu kažejo pravo pot, kaj je prav in do kod sme. Meje je potrebno začeti postavljati že v zgodnjem otroštvu, preden pa jih začnemo postavljati, moramo jasno določiti pravila, ki bodo veljala pri vzgoji otroka. Meje morajo biti jasne, trdne in pravične, otrok se jih mora zavedati in se jih držati. Otroku bodo pomagale, da bo kasneje znal primerno uveljavljati svoje interese, ideje, da se bo znal postaviti zase in se ne pustil drugim. Otroci imajo meje radi, saj takrat vedo, kaj smejo in kaj ne. Sprejemajo jih kot nekaj samoumevnega in postanejo del njihovega življenja, če jih le začnemo postavljati dovolj zgodaj in če se jih dosledno držimo. “How should I bring up my child?” is a common question that parents ask themselves nowadays. Everyone wishes to give his child the most appropriate upbringing, but we do not want him to be spoilt. Parents need to understand what the child’s unique needs are, while this is the only way that they can give them to him. Love is an emotion that a child experiences first when he comes to the world and a feeling, which will accompany him through his whole life. If a child receives gentleness and attention from parents, he feels safe and accepted. We have to give love to a child in a form that will serve his upbringing best. Although love is essential, it is not enough. A child needs boundaries for a healthy upbringing, which show him the right path, enable him to distinguish right from wrong and tell him how far he may go. Boundaries must already be established in early childhood. But, before we start establishing them, we have to define clear rules, which will apply to the child’s upbringing. Boundaries must be clear, firm and just; a child must be aware of them and stick to them. They will help him to assert his interests and ideas properly, to stand up for himself and defend himself. Children like boundaries. While having them, they know what they can and cannot do. They accept boundaries as something natural and they become a part of their lives if only we start establishing them early enough and are consistent in applying them. vzgoja ljubezen meje upbringing love boundaries true true false [P. Ivanič] Slovenski jezik Angleški jezik Diplomsko delo 2012-06-17 15:43:10 2012-07-13 12:16:30 2022-04-20 08:53:21 2021-04-15 03:48:06 2012 0 Maribor 0 0000-00-00 NiDoloceno NiDoloceno NiDoloceno 0000-00-00 0000-00-00 0000-00-00 373.2(043.2) 19254024 URN:SI:UM:DK:GK3BXOBL VS_Ivanic_Petra_2012.pdf VS_Ivanic_Petra_2012.pdf 1 0AA716DC09A007C258502BEEF0AAB147 f67d1f1a3b8e25364d3419455038a4e641d3ef6090b0eda5cf5fe70423d9530e 164599c8-7c08-11eb-bb7a-00155d0001ca 20.500.12556/dkum/ebfe7b8e-9448-407a-8a41-0f6032780b80 https://dk.um.si/Dokument.php?lang=slv&id=47823 Pedagoška fakulteta 0 0 0