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Title:NAGROBNI NAPISI V OBČINAH SLOVENJ GRADEC IN MISLINJA: EPITAFI KOT MOŽNO TERAPEVTSKO SREDSTVO V PROCESU ŽALOVANJA
Authors:ID Mirkac, Alenka (Author)
ID Stanonik, Marija (Mentor) More about this mentor... New window
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PID: 20.500.12556/dkum/544a62e0-2fe7-4a9c-aa7c-1add20658858
 
Language:Slovenian
Work type:Undergraduate thesis
Organization:FF - Faculty of Arts
Abstract:Smrt je neizogibno življenjsko dejstvo. Nekoč so ljudje umirali doma, bolezen in umiranje sta bila sprejeta kot naravna, zato je bilo v ljudeh neprimerno manj strahu in več zdravega sprejemanja izgube, ki jo povzroči smrt, kakor danes. Sodobna družba pa se s smrtjo nerada ukvarja. Vsak dan jo sicer množično prikazuje v medijih, a praviloma na tak način, da se naslovnika namesto žalosti dotakne kvečjemu vtis senzacionalnega. Nekdaj tako žive medgeneracijske solidarnosti družine, ki je lahko bila bistvena opora tudi žalujočim in v zavetju katere se je lahko odvijal ter največkrat tudi uspešno končal proces žalovanja, so danes deležni le še redki, zato je treba iskati nove možnosti pomoči žalujočim ob njihovih stiskah. Ob sleherni osebni izgubi se ljudje soočimo z žalostjo. Ko doživimo osebno izgubo, se v nas sproži naravna reakcija: žalovanje. V strokovnih besedilih, ki z raznih vidikov osvetljujejo proces žalovanja, se kot rdeča nit vedno znova pojavlja potreba po izražanju čutenj. Temeljnega pomena za zdravo žalovanje je, da si dovolimo čutiti — da bolečine ne blažimo z zdravili ali bežanjem pred njo, temveč si jo dovolimo zaznati in izraziti svoje doživljanje, pa kakršno koli že je. Pri izražanju naših najglobljih čutenj pa ima posebno moč in vrednost (za)pisana beseda. Prav s tega vidika bi lahko nagrobni napisi marsikaj prispevali k procesu predelovanja izgube kot dejavnik, ki pomaga izražati žalost in daje svojevrstno možnost za slovo od umrlega. Na temeljno vprašanje mojega diplomskega dela, ki je bilo, ali bi lahko imeli nagrobni napisi tudi terapevtsko vrednost v procesu žalovanja, je analiza 1279 napisov, zbranih v občinah Slovenj Gradec in Mislinja, dala nedvoumen odgovor: da.
Keywords:smrt, pokopališča, nagrobni napisi, žalovanje
Place of publishing:Slovenj Gradec
Publisher:[A. Mirkac]
Year of publishing:2010
PID:20.500.12556/DKUM-15081 New window
UDC:821.163.6(043.2)
COBISS.SI-ID:17911304 New window
NUK URN:URN:SI:UM:DK:TVW69D5U
Publication date in DKUM:14.10.2010
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Language:English
Title:EPITAPHS IN THE SLOVENJ GRADEC AND MISLINJA COMMUNES: EPITAPHS AS A POSSIBLE THERAPEUTIC INSTRUMENT IN THE PROCESS OF MOURNING
Abstract:Death is an inevitable life's fact. In times past people were dying at home; illness and dying were accepted as natural, therefore, there was less fear in people and healthier accepting of loss, which is caused by death, as nowadays. Modern society does not have a will to occupy itself with death. It shows it in mass media every day. However, it is shown as a sensational notion instead of grief and it touches the recipient as an impression of shock. Once so alive intergenerational solidarity of family, which could be an essential support to mourners and where in shelter they could unwind and most of the times successfully finish the process of mourning, today, however, only a few has partaken in. Therefore, new possibilities of helping the mourners have to be found at their straits. Every personal loss causes grief and people have to face it. When we live through a personal loss there is a natural reaction released in us – it is mourning. As a red thread in expert texts, which enlighten the process of grieving from different points of view, a need to express emotions has always appeared. The fundamental meaning for healthy grieving is that we allow ourselves to feel – that we do not soothe our pain with medicine or run in front of it but we let us feel it and express our experiencing it no matter what. When expressing our deepest emotions a special power and value go to the written word. Epitaphs on tombstones could contribute to the process of working through the loss as a factor which helps expressing grief and gives a special possibility for farewell from the deceased. The fundamental question of my diploma thesis has been if the tombstone epitaphs could have a therapeutic value in the process of mourning. The analyses of 1,279 epitaphs, gathered in the municipalities Slovenj Gradec and Mislinja, has given an unambiguous answer: yes.
Keywords:death, graveyards, tombstone epitaphs, mourning


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